Tag: power

  • The Story I Used to Tell Myself about Love

    The Story I Used to Tell Myself about Love

    When I got married the first time, I had the kind of love that I thought I deserved. I thought it was the best I was ever going to get. I thought love was hard because my marriage was hard. I didn’t trust my husband or perhaps I didn’t trust myself. Love was painful. Love…

  • Healers Help Us Heal Ourselves

    No one can do the work for us. No one has all the answers and in fact, when we look to others instead of within for truth, we give our power away. No healer, teacher or therapist can “fix” us. Those who play these sacred roles for us are simply space holders, helping us learn…

  • 100% Responsible

    When my marriage imploded it was all my “ex-husbands fault”. I blamed him for a long time for all the suffering in my life. He cheated. He lied. He broke our marriage vows in every possible way. The wounds incurred from that experience took me to the depths of darkness and depression. The story I…

  • Writing my Memoir – Holy Sh*T!

    Writing my Memoir – Holy Sh*T!

    I have always known I wanted to write a book. I have dreamed of it for as long as I can remember. Once I set out to tell the story that I am meant to tell, I knew it would be difficult. A reckoning of both my pain and my healing, the product of my…