Tag: process

  • The Story I Used to Tell Myself about Love

    The Story I Used to Tell Myself about Love

    When I got married the first time, I had the kind of love that I thought I deserved. I thought it was the best I was ever going to get. I thought love was hard because my marriage was hard. I didn’t trust my husband or perhaps I didn’t trust myself. Love was painful. Love…

  • What Would Love Do?

    Love makes space to see things differently.  Love whispers to our closed hearts and says, “it’s worth the risk.”  Love sees through the darkness with eyes wide open, knowing that death, loss, pain and endings are veiled rebirths, opportunities and beginnings.  Love, given and shared, is eternal. We never truly lose the ones we love. …

  • Healers Help Us Heal Ourselves

    No one can do the work for us. No one has all the answers and in fact, when we look to others instead of within for truth, we give our power away. No healer, teacher or therapist can “fix” us. Those who play these sacred roles for us are simply space holders, helping us learn…

  • This Question Changed My Life

    I was in a 5 year relationship with someone I deeply cared for. Our last year, things shifted. We grew distant. Our interests no longer aligned. The same conversations about change with nothing to come of it. Resentments grew as we found ourselves in routine and resignation. My heart began to whisper, “𝘐𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦. 𝘠𝘰𝘶…